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The Ultimate Guide To Becoming An Au Pair


So you’re interested in becoming an au pair? I think that’s fantastic! It’s honestly such a rewarding job, with so many potential opportunities. But just how does one become an au pair? This ultimate guide to becoming an au pair will give you all the details!

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The Ultimate Guide To Becoming An Au Pair

How To Become An Au Pair

It was around when I was around 18 that I first heard of au pairs. A few of my friends from high school became au pairs in Australia, and soon, other friends of mine were becoming au pairs all over the world.

I knew I wanted to travel, and since I loved kids I decided to take the plunge and become an au pair myself!

Are you interested in becoming an au pair? If so I would definitely recommend it because it was one of the best experiences of my life so far. But this job isn’t for everyone.

Brooklyn petting a kangaroo that is leaning down
Meeting this little buddy

Do you have childcare experience?

I can’t count how many times I’ve seen people become an au pair or nanny thinking this is just some easy job that requires no skills. It’s very easy to turn on the tv and play on your phone while the kids are distracted. But that’s not what this job is about.

It’s about the kids. It’s about giving them the life skills they need to succeed, but having fun doing it.
It’s about having close bonds with them, and teaching them how to become amazing people. And it’s especially about keeping the kids safe!

Not everyone who wants to become an au pair is cut out for it, so before dedicating yourself to a family in another country, try babysitting first!

Kids truly want to spend time with adults when they’re little, so make this experience fun for them! You will be their big best friend through out your contract, and hopefully even after, so be a great big best friend!

My Experience Becoming An Au Pair

I have a younger sibling, and had been babysitting both my younger sister and just working as a babysitter in general for many years, mostly throughout my teens.

I also volunteered at the local library in high school to do my community service hours (I’m from Ontario, Canada and in high school we were required to do so many hours of community service to graduate). I tutored children in reading and ran the arts and crafts workshops for children as my hours.

I now work as a full time nanny, so clearly being an au pair was the perfect fit for me!

Koala sleeping in a tree
On a weekend day trip to the Great Ocean Road we stopped and saw lots of koalas sleeping in the trees!

How Au Pair Companies Work

I can only speak for the company that I went with and what I’ve heard from au pair friends, so let me tell you about the interview process that I experienced. This process is very similar to what other au pairs that have used agencies like this have gone through. If you go through a website that just allows you to pay a fee and search profiles, it will be much different!

I found a company called Scotia Personnel https://www.scotia-personnel-ltd.com/ – here is their website. It’s for Canadians, but there are many other companies in other countries just like them. Are you Canadian? If not, soon you can find other companies in the blog post I’m writing that discusses au pair companies.

I looked through their au pair programs and requirements for each country and eventually settled on Australia. The reason I chose Australia was because I already had two friends do that same program previously and I knew they both loved it. I had wanted to become an au pair in New Zealand, but the taxes I would have had to pay were more than I wanted to give up! Everywhere sounded so amazing though!

There was an interview process. I spoke to a woman with the company several times about the different programs they offered and about what might work for me, what I was looking for, how long I was interested in going, and what I was wanting from a host family.

After a few of these phone calls and deciding I was interested in going through this company, I had a Skype interview with the owner Marilyn, who interviews everyone (or at least she did in 2014!). The interview was about 40 minutes and we just talked about my experience and previous over seas travels (I had none for overseas, but it was okay).

She approved me, so we then filled out sort of a questionnaire for host families to read.

Brooklyn drinking a hot drink at The Green Dragon
Just looking exhausted trying to rush around New Zealand before returning to Canada. Hobbiton FTW! Don’t mind the blurry photo.

My profile was then sent to the Australian sister agency where host families can read your profiles and send you theirs if they think they would be a good match.

Once I received the families profiles I would read them, reply whether or not I was interested in an interview, and then we would set up a Skype interview if I was interested.

I loved reading family profiles and seeing what each family was like and what they were looking for in an au pair, in fact, it was my favorite part of the process!

I had a few interviews before matching with the family I ended up with.

Then Scotia personnel helped me with travel insurance and getting my visa, and I regularly would have Skype calls with my host family before arriving.

Depending on your company that you choose to find work through, they may or may not help you with your visa and travel insurance. Some even help with your flight! Make sure you know what your company will help you with and what you have to do on your own.

Be Thorough Before Deciding

One thing I do want to say though is to make sure you speak with the family about everything before choosing to move across the world to live with them. I thought I had, but when I arrived my host family were not who they seemed to be on paper, and the job wasn’t as expected.

I still had an amazing time and would do it all over again, because the bond I made with the kids was priceless, and I made tons of friends and had lots of travel time, but I left earlier than expected because of the actual job duties, lots of them I didn’t agree to before going, and then suddenly new duties were expected of me once there.

That hindered my experience.

If I were to be an au pair again, I would make sure I had long, thorough talks with the host family, and make sure everything is perfectly clear on both sides.

Once You’re There

Once you arrive in your new country, it’s time to get settled! I would recommend spending a day or two with your host family getting to know them, and spending lots of time with the kids. It’s important to bond!

Learn what your new routine will be, and get comfortable with your new family.

Once you’re settled in, I would recommend joining Facebook groups for au pairs in your new city. Melbourne had lots of different Facebook groups for au pairs and expats, and there were always activities going on!

This is my ultimate guide to becoming an au pair. I hope it helps you out if you are considering becoming an au pair, or are even just curious about what it’s like to become an au pair!

Photo of myself standing in front of the 12 apostles, showing how windy it is

Brooklyn Murtaugh

travel blogger

Hi! I’m Brooklyn, a Canadian whose aim is to see as much of the world as I can, on my limited vacation days. I work full time, and want to show you how it is possible to do just that, while still making use of those precious vacation days.

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